He waited for a year for me because I was still in a relationship with my first love. I told him everything about my relationship because I saw him as a friend. My first love cheated on me with two ladies and I decided to end the relationship. We became very close and he officially asked me out one evening.
Our relationship became the talk of the town. There was never a time we had a fight that wasn’t resolved. Our family members knew about our relationship. Our communication was fabulous. We just understood each other like the back of our palms. I respected the fact that this guy honoured my decision of keeping myself until the wedding night.
I got admission into school and things changed. I felt the distance between us would be difficult for him to handle. I decided to end the relationship so it won’t be a distraction to my academics. It was painful for me and him. He cried for days and I was sad too.
I graduated from school two years the breakup. I met many guys in school but they were basically after the “cookie” which I wasn’t ready to offer. Some called me naive, some others saw me as not exposed. I was jovial, a spiritual fellow, I was serious with my academics but I had no guy to call my boyfriend.
My ex and I started communicating again and memories we once shared together started flooding our minds. We decided to hang out and we enjoyed ourselves.
This guy is just one in a billion. He understands me like no other. I feel so comfortable with him. It’s a mutual feeling. He asked me out again and I said yes.
We got married a year after and I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. Our marriage became a model for many homes. I became a relationship expert. And he was enjoying his job as an international fashion designer.
I have no regret falling in love with my ex over again.
IN LOVE WITH MY EX by Endurance Victor
Livingstone Imonitie is a writer, blogger, public speaker, and inspirational coach. His main aim is to motivate, inspire and teach young folks around the world. His articles and books are being read not only in Africa but around the world.